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Transgender Day of Remembrance – 2015

SeleenaK_2011-10-21-14.38.17Once again, a tough year for the trans community.

But I’m unable to find the numbers to back this up as I have done in the past.

I had high expectations for increasingly accurate numbers going forward but the last tracking initiative’s website .. the one financed with Kickstarter dollars .. isn’t responding on the eve of TDOR.

Although my cynical nature tells me that many would rather hide the ugly numbers than publish results of a near devastating year for trans people, I have no proof of this.  But GLAAD, who I personally believe has been the most honest and reasonable when  reporting trans issues, has said that violent deaths of trans people in the US has risen 50 percent over 2014.

From the numbers I was able to find, Brazil is once again the leader in violent trans deaths.  But it appears the US is next in the order.  Mysteriously, Mexico, who was in the second spot, is not on the list at all this year

But as always, the 20-29 year old age range is the hardest hit group, and girls of colour were most at risk.

Some activists are stating that the number of trans murders hasn’t increased at all; it’s just that the reporting has improved.  but what’s an activist going to say?  That they suck at everything except patting themselves on the back?   I honestly believe we take two steps backwards for every one step forward.

Jenner .. didn’t help.

The US Prez .. didn’t help.

Beck .. didn’t help.

Hollywood didn’t help.

Hate crime laws didn’t help.

Even Cox didn’t help.

And the LGB’s still want to disassociate themselves with the T.  (I hope to discuss this further in a separate blog post)

Can’t blame them.  We’re not very good at gaining acceptance.  And when our sisters are dying at an increasing rate, we’re able to lay blame but are unable to feel remorse or responsibility.

Please take a moment today, to think about the transgender people who have lost their lives this year, often just because they were transgender.

UPDATE:  20th Nov 2015 11:45 am EDT

Better numbers are starting to appear for 2015.  Here’s a table of what I was able to find.  The good news is that Brazil is down to 96 from 154 in 2014 but sadly Mexico is up to 37 from 28 and the USA is up to 21 from 14.

Brazil 96
Mexico 37
Colombia 22
USA 21
El Salvador 14
Argentina 12
Ecuador 7
Venezuela 7
Pakistan 6
Honduras 4
India 4
Cuba 3
Peru 3
Chile 2
Philippines 2
Turkey 2
Uruguay 2
Austria 1
Canada 1
Dominican Republic 1
Guyana 1
Italy 1
Netherlands 1
Spain 1
UK 1

Transgender Day of Remembrance

SeleenaK_2011-10-21-14.38.17I’m not a hateful person .. I’m really not. It’s just that as the years go by, things start to become a little clearer for me.  As the clock continues to wind down on this bimbo, I realize that ideals are wonderful but they don’t count for much when the rubber hits the road.

My so-called liberal-progressive friends grab on to the Transgender Day of Remembrance concept, turn up the drama and milk it for all it’s worth.  And it makes me crazy.

For those of you who may not be aware, The Transgender Day of Remembrance is “celebrated” every year on November 20th.  It’s a day to memorialize trans people who died violently in the previous year, simply for being trans.

But let me back up just a little.  One death is too many deaths.  This is indisputable.  And, yes, memorializing those who’s lives were taken simply because they were trans might be an honorable thing to do.  But in the ideological mind, there is no desire or need to understand the tragic data.  To them, there’s a very high-level, abstract feeling in the concept, so they run with it.

My mind just doesn’t work that way.  Partly because I’m analytical and partly because I feel responsible for my own safety.  I need to understand the risks to me and to those close to me, and to do this, raising a flag and making a speech to raise awareness falls horribly short.

Were these murders committed on my street? I’m my town? In my country? And were the victims cautious folks who avoided dangerous areas and risky behavior? Who killed them?  Friends? Family? Strangers?  “Clients”?  And why?  I don’t need to know how they died.  “Skinned alive”, “shot 3 times in the face”.  Even the most humane termination of life for this reason is horrific to me.  But for those so inclined, knowing how it happened does help feed the drama.

Maturity starts, when drama ends.  ~ Melchor Lim

This is where I get accused of “victim blaming” but that’s not what I’m doing.

No one deserves to die!  There are no actions or lifestyle choices that put the blame on the victim.  I’m just trying to understand what went so horribly wrong so I can try to protect myself and do my best to guide others away from danger.  Do I need to live in fear each and every day of my life  or can I feel reasonably comfortable by knowing what places or behaviors to avoid and what the danger signs in others might be?

This year’s sad number is 268.  268 transgender murders were reported worldwide.  One can only assume the number is higher since gathering numbers for the whole world is something even the WHO struggles with.

But let’s talk about the data.  Or better still, let me explain the detail I was able to find.

  • Of 268 murders, 154 (57%) were committed in Brazil. Yep .. again.  Over half the trans deaths in the entire world happened in Brazil.  Add in Mexico’s 31 (12%) and the United States 14 (5%) – the top three countries – and we account for 75% of all transgender murders worldwide.

My country, Canada, is usually not on the list at all but this year was the exception.  Two trans women were murder in 2014 in the same city – Edmonton.   Ironic side note here:  One of the reported victims was described as a very prominent drag queen.  Most of the trans community doesn’t normally consider drag queens as trans folk but when the opportunity presents itself to bump up the stats, drag queens suddenly become trans folk.

  • The 19-29 age bracket was the most victimized group.
  • a large number of victims were sex trade workers
  • some on the list were there due to speculation and hear-say as opposed to involvement in a documented hate crime

But does anyone care about the 154 Brazilian’s who died unnecessarily?  “Of course!  We care about everyone!” says the bandwagon, but posting an ‘in memoriam’ photo, attending a flag raising or expressing sadness (sniff, sniff) in the social media world does little to help the 150-ish Brazilian trans folks who will likely die before the next Day of Remembrance.

Please, bandwagon people, let’s work on real, substantial ways to end the bloodshed in Brazil, Mexico and the United States, for starters.  I don’t want to be memorialized on November 20th and I’m guessing you don’t either.




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